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Wednesday, August 04, 2010

	Sometimes I wonder if work and relationship is a distraction. Work in inundating you with repetition. Relationship in being a time sink where all is care free. Career and creative aspirations slowly drifting away. Brain turning into mush. Time to seek renewed passion and zest for life.
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Wednesday, April 14, 2010

	Sometimes life happens in a circle. That you think that you have gone somewhere, made some progress, but only to find yourself arrive back at the beginning. It seems that nothing has changed and that everything that has happened the past few years was merely a distraction from your own recurring issues. Is it chronic?
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Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Dating.

Something of which I never gave a passing thought but is now very apparent.

Why?

Because. Parents are getting old. Friends are moving on. This is simply something that cannot be ignored. It is time to take life (dating life) by the reigns and make things happen.

The love life has never been kind. I focused my energy into my passion and never gave much thought into chasing after girls. It was something that I believed just naturally happened. Effortlessly.

No. The act of chasing girls is an art in itself. A delicate act of social engineering that one must hone their skills upon.

If you are female and reading this... those dates and magical moments weren't a coincidence but a tight knit carefully executed plan.

This is where dating life becomes blurred with the animal kingdom where the male must hunt for its prey -- and that all of our life's skills, our natural mechanisms to survive, are tested and only the strong prevail.

And being the rational beings that we are, dating turns into a paradox that favours the irrational.. and it is surprising that humanity hasn't weed itself out of existence.

Let's dissect the Alpha and Beta Male.

Alpha Male: Leader of men. Confident. Influential. Girls flock to them like stink on poop. Masculine.

Beta Male: Nice guy. Non confrontational. Regular.

Put Alpha Male and Beta Male together in a room. Toss in a girl. Alpha impresses girl with loud acts for attention. Beta attempts to befriend girl. Girl is in a good and carefree mood with Alpha. Beta male doesn't stand a chance with his passive non-sexual stature. Alpha gets some. Beta gets the scrappy leftovers. This is just one of many examples of ladder theory at play.

So what's the problem?

Does intellect make a difference?

Would Beta get anywhere if he got a PHD (unless it's an acronym for Pimpin' Hoe Degree!)?

That's the problem.

Over-rationalization suppresses our animal instincts to simply act sexually. Conservative notions. Respect. Rules... all of which may be deeply ingrained and subliminally exercised act against our ability to mack. tap, and survive.

Kino escalation.. borderline sexual harassment (if not carefully executed).. touching.. petting.. hell.. you probably don't need to say much but express everything through physical contact.. will probably get you a lot further. This is something you can't hold rational thought against. This is physical instinct. Thinking too much will simply turn you off from any sexual advances because.. oh no.. you'll be afraid to violate said rules of proper conduct. Fuck it!

Really, it almost boils down to this:

Toss respect and nice guy out the window and start being more physically aggressive. Which is against the grain of pretty much all philosophical teachings for proper conscious conduct. But in the name of survival.. one can bend the rules.. right?

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Wednesday, July 22, 2009

You know what is retarded?

The feeling of being rejected by somebody that you are not even that into.

How dare she.

You're not breaking up with me.

No no.. you have got it all wrong.

I'm breaking up with you.

That's right.

Just because I'm a guy and that it's my job to pretend that I'm chasing after you isn't suppose to boost your ego. I led you to think that you were winning.

No. Sorry to say it was all for show.

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Thursday, June 25, 2009

	Self-fulfilling Prophecy. I gotta stop talking (and thinking) about this stuff. It is now a test of ambition and determination more than ever before.
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